I get a call asking for me, when I say this is he- he hangs up.  I called the number back and got a voice mail. Should I have left a message?

Some idiot called, asked for my husband, I told her he was unavailable and she hung up.  I called back and left a "sweet" message!  This is foolish and childish...I will be calling my local police to report and try to stop this....at least for my phone....I thought my husband may have found him a girlfriend!  Had no idea......who this woman is or why she would be calling....our bills are paid so that wasn't an option!!  It's absolutely uncalled for, I also let the girl know she should probably find a real job!

they called and actually said my name. I then responded "yes" and then they hung up

This person calls my home number in Florida, and when I answer, they ask for "Jim" (which IS my name), and when I say This is him.... They hang up the phone.  Something needs to be done about this.

This person called and actually said my name and then when I said this is _ they hung up

Caller called, used my name and then hung up.

Female called my cell asked for me by my first name and then hung up.  Crackpot...get a life.