You have posted your real name, telephone number, e-mail address, and the password to that e-mail address on a public bulletin board.  That is seriously unwise.  Now any fool or scammer can hijack your e-mail account.  

Change the password for your e-mail account.  Do it right now.  Open a new e-mail account.  Drop the old one once your regular contacts know the new address.

i have sent a previous message to you. i am jacqueline and my email address is [removed]  and the password is [removed]. you are telling me that it is invalid....just e-mail here i will receive your email as i receive all emails at that address. thank you

Its a scam.  The "man in the military" that you "have only had an on-line relationship" with is the scammer.  Don't send any money to anyone.

Its not a threat to national security.  Its only a threat to your bank account.

I RECEIVED A CALL FROM A MAN SAYING HE WAS IN UNITED ARAB EMIRATE WORKING FOR A SUPERIOR SECURITY ORGANIZATION  AND THAT A CONSIGMENT BEING HELD THERE FOR A MAN  IN THE MILITARY HAD MADE ME BENEFICIARY AS HIS WIFE. I HAD SPECIFICALLY REQUESTED THAT TO BE CHANGED ON THE DOCUMENT TO MY FULL NAME JACQUELINE PINKERTON  AS I AM NOT HIS WIFE WE HAVE ONLY HAD AN ON-LINE RELATIONSHIP AND TO PLEASE FAX THE CORRECTED DOCUMENT AT MY LOCAL WESTERN UNION AS THEY HAVE REQUESTED A $2OOO PAYMENT FROM WESTERN UNION TO A MAN NAMED BABAJIDE IN AJMAN DUBAI ON NEW DIERA RD 20045 IN THE UNITED ARAB EMIRATE.  I FIND THIS TO POSSIBLY BE FRAUD AS I FEEL I SHOULD BE SENDING THE MONEY TO THE SECURITY COMPANY DIRECTLY. WHERE THE TRANSACTION WOULD BE PROPERLY DOCUMENTED AND TRACEABLE. PLEASE GET BACK TO ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATED AS THE PAYMENT IS DUE TODAY. THIS CALL WAS RECEIVED BY ME AT 5;47 AM TODAY ON MY PHONE #1-[removed]. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CALL ME AS I FEEL THIS TO BE A THREAT TO MY SECURITY AS A CITIZEN OF THE U.S.A.  THANK YOU JACQUELINE PINKERTON.